friendship

Recently, a friend of mine wrote this caption "friends come & go and bla bla bla bla". Somehow it hit me right in the face, why? because I can't agree to what he wrote at all. For me, my friends are not like that and I don't think a friend should do like that to one another. I love ALL my friends regardless who they are, what they become into lately or with whom they make friends with. Friends are for keep seumur hidup, kawin pun i want all of you there, sampai anak cucu sampai the day my last breath, and friendship is something i treasure the most (after family ku sayang). And even mr boyfriend pun takleh nak take me away from my friends.

Friends should be the one yang can give you advises especially you're in mid of crisis kehidupan, when you need them the most and asking for your opinion and all that. And you the one yang mintak opinion/advise; its up to you wheher you want to listen to what they said ke tak. Its truly your choice and seriously don't blame your friends for giving you their honest opinion. Bukannya suka-suka nak bagi opinion, but bila diminta kita bagi but kalau tak terima dont do it.

You can call me emo but without friends can you live? memang la bole but berseri ke kehidupan? For me i still have people to refer as my best friends, the people that I know I can depend on so many things including personal life problem, love life ka and whatnot. I love them; cinta mati wa cakap sama lu. I couldn't picture my life without this bunch of people I called friends, best friends to be precise, memang tak boleh because I know my life would be dull, boring, and macam-macam lagi la perkara yang tak diingini.

Some of my friends; since darjah 1 wei, can you imagine? I know most of us ada kawan yang from tadika, see amazing kan how this friendship thing works? And I know most of us treasure your friends so much not until at one point takde kawan, or buat something baru teringat kat kawan-kawan yang sudah lama tak dihubungi. Ingat best ke mcm tu? Tak best tau tak.

Tak kira my friends tu lama ke tak, baru ke dari primary ke dari secondary ke or even from mmu ke, i feel like I've known them for ages. Memang bukan semua boleh jadi best friend kind of thing but friendship is more valuable tak kira la kawan biasa ke, special friend ke, best friend ke, special best friend ke (teringat buku autograph mase zaman sekolah rendah tu ada tulis mcm ni. :P).

I dont think friends come and go. I suka berfikir yang friends are for keep, friends are just like harta karun yang dapat ditreasure di lautan hindi, and i like for them to come but never for them to go. Boyfriend/Girlfriend can be replace (ni kalau takde jodoh ye, kalau ada jodoh alhamdulillah) tapi cuba fikir, berapa banyak bf/gf yang ditukar tapi kawan still maintain yang lama. Kawan yang tu jugaaaaaaaaaaaak sampai the whole family kenal lah. Sampai kan kawan masuk TV pun adik beradik tau. (Fiza la ni) Friendship = priceless.

Okay, sorry emo but this is my dua puluh sen entry. :)